A business borne from the love of dogs

A business borne from the love of dogs

They say you should never work with children or animals and whilst I admit there are some challenges, I do not agree with the statement!

In my previous role, working with a fab education team producing resources for all age groups, where we actually involved and empowered children, we produced some of our greatest work; which I am proud to say is the legacy today. And now I get to work with the greatest love (other than hubby of course) of my life, dogs – and I can honestly say it is the most fulfilling and rewarding job I have ever had.

As long-term dog owners ourselves, myself and hubby understand and appreciate how much they are a part of the family and we look to involve our boys, Oscar and Barney (two jolly Golden Retrievers) in as many activities with us as possible! We take them on holiday with us, to the pub (must admit trying to get Oscar past a couple of our locals can be a tad embarrassing at times!), hiking, shopping where possible and I have even taken them to business meetings and they love supporting us at wedding fayres! We try to give them as many shared experiences that we can enjoy as a family unit and then treasure those memories forever.

That’s why when we registered the business back in 2015 there was never any question or doubt that we would look to provide a service that ensures your furbaby, along with all other family and loved ones can take part in one of the big, if not the biggest days of your life! I can honestly say that Oscar was the key inspiration and when Barney came along, he just cemented the idea and the That’s Pawfect Wedding Chaperone® service was born.

two Golden Retrievers by the canal

For many couples, their dog is their first baby together. It cements their relationship like no other and through sharing the responsibility of owning a dog, helps to build the foundations for the future together. Owning a dog means that you have to work on your communication skills, develop a ‘team working’ environment and there’s always an element of compromise, hence you have the makings of some great building blocks towards getting married and introducing children into the mix! 

Therefore having your dog (first baby) involved on your Wedding Day seems only natural, doesn’t it! Not only that, but it’s also so wonderful to experience the look on the wedding party’s faces, to hear the aah’s and ooh’s as they get to appreciate that special moment when a dog appears. Witnessing how each couple and their furry family member interact to make lifetime memories to share is completely priceless and something I will never tire of.

Bride kneeling and laughing whilst cuddling her dog at her wedding

We’re extremely proud! Proud to have launched the first-ever bespoke Chaperone service in the UK. Proud to have worked for some lovely couples and their dogs over the years and even more proud to achieve a consistent 5-star customer service rating since launch. We’ve also been nominated by our couples in The Wedding Industry Awards (TWIA) for the past four years, and super PROUD for winning the West Regional Finals 2021 – 2024 and receiving Highly Commended in 2023 & 2024!

I am extremely lucky and appreciated the fact that I am now with dogs 7 days a week/52 weeks of the year, from very small ones to great big tall ones and everything in-between. Working and living with dogs every day is never dull and is so rewarding. They constantly surprise me with their quirky natures, their ability to learn and adapt, and the never-ending love and support they provide for their owners.

That’s Pawfect Wedding Chaperone®– “We take the lead whilst you’re tying the knot!”

Should your dog be included in your special day or not?

Should your dog be included in your special day or not?

Venues and businesses are recognising that our dogs are a huge part of the family and are adapting to accommodate us with our four-legged friends.

We now have specific dog cafes, more shops opening their doors and even providing doggie refreshments whilst you shop; dog friendly bars are popping up across the country, and you can even take your dog to the cinema with all his furry friends.

Two Golden Retrievers relaxing at open air restaurant near marina

So, having your four legged family member involved in one of the biggest days of your life is no longer a pipe dream.

To have your dog at your wedding can be wonderful however, please don’t underestimate what needs to be considered for your dog. Spending time talking to clients about their dog as part of the decision-making process is the key priority and helps throughout the wedding planning process.

How do you decide what’s best for them?

It’s important to really think about your dog. I know this may sound silly as you know your dog inside out right! Taking time out to consider how they could feel and potentially respond on the day given this is not any usual day, will help.

By taking time to consider how they may respond will help to manage all expectations and build a clear picture of your pooch for anyone expected to take care of them on the day.

Dog with wedding party

Start with the basics!

First, and before any further decisions are taken, really think about your dog’s personality and especially what experiences they have been exposed to in their life already How did/do they handle different situations?

Their age, personality, likes, and dislikes must be considered. How well socialised are they? Are they easily excited, vocal, a jumper? Do they like children and people or being carried or fussed over? Can they adapt quickly to new environments? How is their general health? How far will they be expected to travel and how? Is this different from their usual mode of travel?

Dogs that were born during lockdown may have not yet experienced being with large groups of people or visited many places. Taking time to let your dog experience these things leading up to your wedding day will help.

Take them for regular walks in more busier areas giving them time to meet and greet people, dogs and children. Introduce them to as many family members that will be attending the wedding and let them spend time together.

Take them out for trips in the car. Visit your venue with them and let them have a sniff and walk about so the place can start to feel familiar.

For those very energetic, excited pupsters that find it hard to stand still or keep 4 paws on the ground, it may be worth investing in a little training. By investing, we don’t always mean money, it could be your time and utilising some of the free reputable training videos and advice out there. Remember, all our dogs are not born knowing naturally what to do and how to behave, like babies, we must invest our time and patience into teaching them good manners.

Most people will have booked the wedding date well in advance so hopefully you can plan in as many activities as you feel necessary to help your pooch as you will have time

Next – How do you want to include them?

Then think about how you potentially want them included in the day and how will they cope. Will they be expected to meet and greet the wedding party? Will they be expected to wear something different than usual and for how long? Will they have responsibility for the rings and if so, how? Are they used to having their photo taken? Has your photographer worked with animals before? Does your pooch respond well to basic commands?  Who will and how will they take care of them pre, during and post-wedding?

I get asked for dogs to be involved in weddings in so many ways. From ushers to bridesmaids, ring bearers to best man. Most things are possible if your dog feels happy and confident.

Collie Dog sat in wedding ceremony. Photograph by Adam Lowndes Photography

Helping them to get wedding ready is the best wedding prep you and more importantly, they need. I mentioned earlier about taking them to the venue to familiarise themselves, well this is the same for new attire. Whether it’s just a new collar or harness to a dickie bow or full-blown outfit, letting them wear it little and often leading up to the big day helps. They get use to the feel and smell which can help to reduce stress.

If they are participating in the ceremony, who will walk them down the aisle, are they familiar with your dog, can they handle them well and keep them under control and more importantly, do they get on/like each other?

Keep the ring-bearing device simple and easy to access. Not only do you not want either the best man or groom to be struggling and stressing to get the rings out, the fussing around your dog’s collar or harness could also cause them to become stressed or worried.   There are lots of good, safe, and simple devices now available on the market and to be honest, even a new, bright, shiny, and simple carabiner clip does the job extremely well.   

Check if your photographer has worked with dogs before or has experience of dogs.

It’s not a deal-breaker if they haven’t, however, you will need to discuss with them how you would like your dog involved in the photography and I suggest you stress that the photographer will have to have realistic expectations. For example, asking a dog to sit for 2-3 mins whilst they set the shot up will not necessarily work. The action of sitting is not a natural one for any dog and is a performance, so asking them to sit quietly then do something else after a prolonged period will be too much and you/the photographer won’t get the desired result.

Decide who will take care of your pooch!

Friends and family members who you know and trust with your dog can help, but if they’re at the wedding wouldn’t you prefer them to relax and enjoy yours and their family day too?

Having a professional pet care Chaperone to take care of pooch can have enormous benefits, least of all it can provide you with a complete solution that is stress, worry and hassle-free.

As an experienced, professional Chaperone of 10 years, I spend time getting to know clients and their dogs, not only to help manage their expectations but to ensure that the health and welfare of their precious pooch is the priority, hence asking lots of questions about each individual dog.

dog giving paw at wedding

In addition, in the lead-up to the wedding, I get to know you and your pooch. From the initial consultation to our familiarisations sessions where we look to assess each dog based on the information you provide and our own experience. I monitor and record your dog’s body language and how they respond directly to me by trialling some of our tried and tested methods to engage, relax and build a bond with your dog that helps both of us.

If at any time I feel that your dog would just not cope with attending the whole of your wedding we can talk through the concerns and alternatives to decide what is best for them and their overall health and wellbeing. There are a variety of options that we have delivered across the years and we will always provide advice on this.

So, as we said earlier, having your dog at your wedding can be a wonderful experience but please think it through and plan in any potential activities to help make the day the best it can be for you and more importantly your fur baby! To help, please check out our services here ,read reviews from our previous wedding clients here and get answers to most of your questions here. Happy wedding planning with your pooch folks!

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